Happy Easter Card

It’s the HOLIDAYS!

22 March 2024

Hi everyone! Easter holidays are upon us – well done parents of South African children, term one done and dusted! In the words of Fat Amy… Acabelieve it! (And if you don’t get this reference then you have never watched Pitch Perfect. And that means you have some more movie-watching homework. Not for children.)

 

Anyway, I digress.

I was sent this cool personality quiz for kids by my friend, from a website called https://knowandlove.com/

I had fun with my two children taking the quiz and comparing our results. There are 8 personality types, based on the Myers-Briggs personality tests. They’ve made it child friendly by assigning an animal to each type, it’s beautifully illustrated and relatable.

Why not take a bit of time this holiday and do the quiz as a family connection activity, have fun exploring your similarities and differences. You can read a description of each of the 8 animals here. And you can take the quiz here. It’s suitable for children from 5 years old.

It’s good to remember that no personality test is 100% accurate because every single one of us is completely unique. There will be parts of our “type” that resonate and parts that don’t. It’s all about deepening our understanding of ourselves and loved ones that helps our connections to grow and mature.

I wish you and your family a beautiful and blessed Easter.

silhouette of cross during sunset

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